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Why my Host Family is the Best!

Academic Year in America recently held a writing competition for current AYA and FLEX students. This year's theme was: Why My Host Family Is The Best! Here is what FLEX students had to say:

"Through my mistakes I learned how to value more your own time and somebody’s time, here life going so fast, interesting. This year was big step to improve myself to become better person and better tennis player. I cannot tell everything what I learned from my host family starting from telling them “jume” instead of gum and talking about chores at home and be more kind, helpful person to society. I know it is a lot of different host families but only a few of them are good at hosting and representing the US. My host family is one of these families that broke our stereotypes about our cultural and political differences. I had a wonderful year because I was able to communicate with my host family who wanted to hear me, support me, and with them I learned hundreds of things which will help me in my future career. They gave me a FAMILY and help during this difficult year and they gave me the best representation of the US."
Larisa (FLEX student from Uzbekistan)
Living with the Estelle family in Kansas
HF of the Year Student Essay Winner
"My host family became my family, that’s right, they are no more my host family, I found in them great parents, cool sister and brother. But how? Very easy, they gave me what my natural family gave me-love cozy home; I became a part of the family."
Oleksandr (FLEX grant student)
Living with the Palone family

"My name is Oksana. I am an exchange student from Uzbekistan. I wish to nominate my host family, Troy and Paula from Lenexa, Kansas, as the best host family. They have not only welcomed me into their home, they treat me as one of their own children, and have shown me love and very much laughter.

When I first came to the United States of America, I was not even sure that I had a host family because my assigned host family had to withdraw from the program. I was not aware that I would be living in Kansas either. I was very scared, but also exited about my new family and the place where I would live. When I arrived at the airport I saw my coordinator, and I was very happy. She told me that she was going to take me to my host family. We were ready to go, when suddenly my host family arrived at the airport. My two host sisters and two of their friends, along with my host dad, came to meet me.

I hugged them and I was happy that I had a host family after all. My dad helped me with my bags. The first funny thing that happened with my host dad is that he took my bag and he carried it all the way to the car. As he reached the car, he realized that the bag actually had wheels on it. His face was very funny and confused at this time. I was really sorry he went to such trouble, but he laughed with me. My host dad is actually a very funny man.

I have a couple other funny stories about my host family. One day my host dad bought Ice Cream and different kinds of sweet toppings. He brought it home and asked me to make him a banana split. I did not know what it was. He explained to me that I have to cut a banana and put ice cream, jam and chocolate toppings on it. I was very confused because I thought that you have to cut the banana in two pieces and make it like a sandwich or something like that. Even though I thought this was very weird, I did it because I thought maybe American people liked it this way. I brought it to my dad. When he saw a banana sandwich he started laughing very hard. And then he explained to me again how to make a banana split and I started laughing a lot too. It was really funny, and my host mom and host sisters were laughing with me as well.

My other story is about my host sister and I. We came home from school and we were hungry. I wanted to microwave corn and my sister was making oatmeal. She said let's put our stuff together to microwave them. I thought that she wanted me to microwave them all together in one bowl. I was really confused because I had never heard at any time in my life that people eat oatmeal mixed with corn. I started to pour my corn into the oatmeal, when my sister's eyes grew very wide and she yelled at me to stop. She just wanted to microwave both items at the same time, when I though that we should mix it together. And then we both started laughing about what I had thought she wanted me to do

In my family, my host dad calls me OK Sana. It is very funny. My host sisters call me Oxy or Oxy clean. I have written just some of the funny stories about my host family, but I have several more. I think if I were to write them all, it will take several sheets of paper.

I really love my host family. I have become so close to them that I cannot imagine how I will be able to leave them in three months. I feel like a member of their family and that they love me so much. I am sure that they are the best host family, as they are very great.

I hope my host family will win.

Sincerely,
Oksana"

"Dear AYA staff,

i'm Dasha and i am an exchange student from Russia, staying with the Ridges family. I think that my host family is the best!!! I'm so glad that i became a part of their family for this year. But they are not only a great host parents, but also very nice and extremely friendly people.

Since the very first moment i've seen them in the airport, they were greeting and welcoming me with warm and friendly smiles on their faces. They built the atmosphere in their house that keeps your heart warm. They became a really understanding and loving family for me since that first moment, but they didn't stop on that! My host parents accepted me in their family and made and still are making every day of my life staying with them very special.

Like my real parents they take a lot of care of me and help me with any problems i have, and this is not only the words, i can come to them i just talk about anything. Jim and Gayle are one of those people who helped me to feel at home in a foreign country and became not only the family i really love but the people whom i truly admire. As i see every day their love they give to children who are not even their own kids, they have also been faster parents for more then 11 years, giving their care to many young people.

I love to spend time with my host family! We are never bored together and always are doing something exciting and new. we travel a lot and Jim and Gayle try to show and tell me as much about this country as possible. Thanks them, i've seen a lot of beautiful places and have met many interesting people in the United States. Now i know that people here are really friendly and have kind and loving hearts.

Staying with my parents for more the 7 months already, i can say that now i couldn't imagine not meeting and knowing this wonderful people! I also can say that i wish everybody who is going to be or already became foreign exchange students to have such a great and the BEST host family as mine!!!

Sincerely,
Darya"

"Best Hostfamily.

I am at United States for a first time and I feel so lucky that I have an opportunity to live with the host family, to go to american school. I think this is great program I ever know. Why? Just because they put me in a such a wonderful host-family.

I think my host-family is the best. My host dad and host mom like me very much, they understand me and help me in everything here, so i can't feel alone with them. They definately make my AYA year here - awesome , and I never remember such a nice time i spent here. What a great YEAR!

I think that's it.

I just love them very much and love sometimes can't be explained by words :))

Regards,
Arslan"

 
   
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